KAFKA-18193 Refactor Kafka Streams CloseOptions to Fluent API Style

[m1a2st]

In Kafka Streams, configuration classes typically follow a fluent API
pattern to ensure a consistent and intuitive developer experience.
However, the current implementation of
org.apache.kafka.streams.KafkaStreams$CloseOptions deviates from this
convention by exposing a public constructor, breaking the uniformity
expected across the API.

To address this inconsistency, we propose introducing a new
CloseOptions class that adheres to the fluent API style, replacing the
existing implementation. The new class will retain the existing
timeout(Duration) and leaveGroup(boolean) methods but will enforce
fluent instantiation and configuration. Given the design shift, we will
not maintain backward compatibility with the current class.

This change aligns with the goal of standardizing configuration objects
across Kafka Streams, offering developers a more cohesive and
predictable API.

[m1a2st]

This patch should wait until the KIP-1153 vote concludes.

[m1a2st]

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