[Chore]: Fix release related issues

[jsjoeio]

@code-asher cut the 4.0.2 release last week. Afterwards, we discussed how the release process could use some cleanup.

Issues

Here's a short list of things we could fix or improve:

• remove all uses of download_artifact (flakey)
• fix brew-bump to actually work (it's never worked)
• automate updating the package on AUR
• publish dev/beta builds to docker
• publish dev/beta builds to homebrew
• figure out a better way to attach assets to release
• test cross-compile builds with qemu to prevent issues like [Bug]: Cannot find module '@node-rs/argon2-linux-arm64-gnu' #4804

[jsjoeio]

I'd like to break up these issues and then add them to upcoming milestones