refactor: use memoize and MemoizeCache from @netlify/dev-utils

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Summary

Fixes #EX-340

Refactoring all usages of memoizeBuild and BuildCommandCache in cli to use memoize and MemoizeCache from @netlify/dev-utils.

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📊 Benchmark results

Comparing with 5d6d5e4

• Dependency count: 1,082 (no change)
• Package size: 288 MB (no change)
• Number of ts-expect-error directives: 399 (no change)

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ref: https://github.com/netlify/primitives/blob/578e5f27148c3283aadf29b5b99147d297b43b06/packages/dev-utils/src/lib/memoize.ts

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